Thursday, March 01, 2007
i've got some mind-boggling questions that i cant answer and they're driving me crazy!what is 'love'?is it a feeling, a state of mind or an illusion, a make-belief?when one says he/she is in 'love', what does it actually mean?
how does one identify 'Love'?is it through feelings, actions or through words?
let's consider these scenarios:
1) i miss him, so i love him.
is it possible that you just miss the company/presence, just like an ordinary friend's, but it so happened that he's a male?
2) he's the perfect one - like a dream come true.is it possible that because he fits the epitome of your Ideal One, you make yourself believe you love him?
in other words, you are in love with your ideals and he merely brought them into reality.
some people may think THAT is what love is about - a dream come true.
but if that's the case, doesnt it mean that you were in love with your dream even before the guy appeared and he simply FITS the description?
hoho i sound quite philosophical eh.
but really, i feel like a confused kid.
i oughta learn to live in the present and stop worrying about details of the future.
it's making me pull my hair in desperation!
and i pity the One bugged with my never-ending-trying-to-be-philosophical questions. hehh
speaking of hair, im going for a haircut tmr!
but my pretty red highlights will be gone. *heartache*
♥ my red umbrella
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